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GUvB nj weevwnZ Rxeb| GRb¨ we‡q kxl©K evYx wPiš—bx nj ÔMarriage is not a word. It is a sentence, a life sentenceÕ A_© we‡q GKUv IqvW© ïay bq, †mb‡UÝI, G‡Kev‡i jvBd †mb‡UÝ (†mb‡UÝ? Uz †W_ A_©vr hve¾xeb Kviv`Ê Avi Kx)|
GK hyeK Zvi `v`v‡K wR‡Ám K‡i : GUv wK mZ¨? Avwg ï‡bwQ †h cÖvPxb Px‡b we‡q bv Kiv ch©š— ¯^vgx Zvi ¯¿x‡K wPb‡Z cv‡i bv?
`v`v `xN©k¦vm †d‡j e‡j : me RvqMv‡ZB Ggb nq †i `v`y, me RvqMv‡ZB GgbUv nq|
we‡q Kivi Rb¨ GKRb cyi“l‡K 4 ai‡bi wis ˆZwi Ki‡Z nq, ev ˆZwi Kivi ¶gZv _vK‡Z nq : (1) A¨v‡½R‡g›U wis (2) I‡qwWs wis (3) mvdv-wis (†fvMvwš—) (4) GbwWD-wis (¯’vwqZ¡, wU‡K _vKvi ¶gZv)|
ZvB wnmve weÁvbxivI wnmve K‡i †ei Ki‡Z cv‡i bv we‡qi LiP| †Kvb weevwnZ‡K we‡qi LiP wR‡Ám Ki‡j Zvi DËi _v‡KÑ ÔAvwg Rvwb bv fvB, KviY, Avwg GLbI LiP K‡i PjwQ|Õ
GRb¨ Bs‡iwR‡Z e‡j ÔMarriage is love. Love is blind. Therefore, marriage is an institution for the blind.Õ (we‡q nj fv‡jvevmv, Avi fv‡jvemv nj AÜ; †mRb¨ we‡qUv h_v_©B A܇`i Rb¨ GKUv Dchy³ cÖwZôvb|)
¯^vgx : mZ¨ K_v ej‡Z wK Rvb, cÖK…Z g~L©ivB my›`ix †g‡q‡`i we‡q K‡i|
¯¿x : hvK Gwχb GB cÖ_g Zzwg Avgvi iƒ‡ci cÖksmv Ki‡j|
GKevi GK weL¨vZ e³v Zvi fvl‡Y ej‡jb, ÔAvgvi Rxe‡bi †miv mgq GK gwnjvi m‡½ †K‡U‡Q, wKš‘ †m Avgvi ¯¿x bqÕ!!! me †kÖvZv ï‡b Pg‡K I‡V Pzc n‡q †Mjt Gici e³v †hvM Ki‡jb,
ÔwZwb Avgvi gv!Õ mevB †n‡m D‡V nvZZvwj w`‡q DVjtnvejyI †mLv‡b wQj Ges †m LyeB Awff‚Z njt wVK Kij †mI GUv evwo‡Z wM‡q ej‡e! †m evwo‡Z wM‡q wK‡P‡b ¯¿x‡K wM‡q †Rv‡i ejj, ÔAvgvi Rxe‡bi †miv mgq GK gwnjvi m‡½ †K‡U‡Q wKš‘ †m Avgvi ¯¿x bq!Õ Gici †m GKUz Pzc _vKj Zvici †m GKUv Av‡jvi wSwjK †`Lj| evwK Ask g‡b Kivi †Póv Kij wKš‘ †m cvij bv| g‡b Ki‡Z hLb Zvi Ávb wdij †`Lj †m nvmcvZv‡j|
Avcwb we‡q Ki‡jB GKUv eD cv‡eb, e¨vcviUv wVK G iKg bq; eD‡qi m‡½ †evbvm wn‡m‡e mviv Rb‡gi MÄbvI m‡½ cv‡eb|
GK †jv‡Ki Lv‡qk n‡q‡Q wZwb wbe©vPb Ki‡eb| `uvwo‡qI †M‡jb †fv‡U| ¯^Zš¿ cÖv_©x wn‡m‡e| †fvU nj| MYbv †k‡l †`Lv †Mj, wZwb gvÎ `ywU †fvU †c‡q‡Qb| †jvKwUi ¯¿x †Zv †i‡M Av¸b| ejj, ÔAvwg Av‡MB m‡›`n K‡iwQjvg, Zzwg wbðq Ab¨ †Kvb †g‡q‡K fv‡jvevm| Zv bv n‡j Av‡iKUv †fvU w`j †K?Õ
GUvB weavb, cyi“liv Rš§MZfv‡e ¯^vaxb; Z‡e Zv‡`i g‡a¨ †KD †KD weevn-e܇b ew›` n‡q _v‡Kb|
bZzb K¬v‡m fwZ©i ci †Q‡j‡g‡qiv Avjvc Ki‡Q| Kvi evev wK K‡i Zv wb‡q wRÁvmvev` Pj‡Q|
GKRb wb‡Ri cwiPq w`‡q e‡j, Avgvi evev e¨vs‡K PvKwi K‡ib| †Zvgvi evev wK K‡ib ?
wØZxqRb DËi †`q, gv hv e‡j ZvB K‡i|
Bs‡iwR‡Z GKUv K_v Av‡QÑIt is true that love is blind but marriage is definitely an eye-opener. (GUv mZ¨ †h, fv‡jvevmv AÜ, wKš‘ we‡q wbtm‡›`‡n †PvL Ly‡j †`q|)Õ
¯¿x Zvi ¯^vgx‡K ej‡Q : A¨vB, Rvb †Zvgvi eÜz †h †g‡qUv‡K we‡q Ki‡Z hv‡”Q Zv‡K Avwg wPwb| †g‡qwU fv‡jv bq| Ii ¯^fve Lvivc, Zvi Ici SMov‡U| †Zvgvi eÜz‡K eviY K‡i †`qv `iKvi|
¯^vgx nZvk K‡É e‡j : bv Avwg eviY Kie bv| †mI †Zv we‡qi Av‡M Avgvi †eЇK wPbZ, KB ZLb wK †m Avgv‡K eviY K‡iwQj?
Av‡iKUv †KŠZzK ewj :
GKwU †g‡qi m‡egvÎ evM`vb n‡q‡Q| Zvi Awd‡mi GK weevwnZ gwnjv G‡jb Zv‡K Dc‡`k w`‡Z Ñ Ô†kvb, we‡qi ci cÖ_g 10 eQiB me‡P‡q KwVb|Õ
†g‡qwU ZLb wR‡Ám Ki‡jÑ ÔAvcbvi we‡q n‡q‡Q KZ w`b?Õ
Ñ Ô10 eQi|Õ
ZviciI we‡q we‡qB| GKevi wK nj, GK †g‡q jUvwi‡Z 5 †KvwU UvKv †c‡q‡Q| †Kv¤úvwb wPš—v Kij nVvr GB msev` †g‡q‡K Rvbv‡j †g‡q Lywk‡Z g‡i †h‡Z cv‡i ZvB Pv›`y‡K cvVv‡bv nj Ggbfv‡e ejvi Rb¨ hv‡Z †g‡q Lywk‡Z bv g‡i|
Pv›`y †g‡q‡K wM‡q ejj : g‡b K‡ib Avcwb 5 †KvwU UvKv †c‡jb Zvn‡j wK Ki‡eb?
†g‡q : Avcbvi mvg‡b bvPe, Avcbv‡K fv‡jvevme, we‡q Kie ïay GUvB bv A‡a©K Avcbv‡K w`qv w`e!!
Pv›`y wb‡RB Lywk‡Z gBiv †Mj!!!!
nq †i w`wj­Kv jvÇz : we‡q! gvby‡li †`Lv‡`wL e‡bi ivRv evN GKevi wVK Kij †h, †mI we‡q Ki‡e| ivRvi Avkcv‡k mviv¶Y bvbv iKg †gvmv‡ne Rš‘-Rv‡bvqvi †NvivNywi K‡i| ivRv GKw`b Zv‡`i ej‡jb, ÔGB †kvb, Avwg we‡q Kie wVK K‡iwQ, Avgvi Rb¨ †g‡q †`wLm|Õ
GB K_v †kvbvi ci Avi †KD ev‡Ni Kv‡QB wf‡o bv|
mevB g‡b g‡b fv‡e, †Kvb †g‡q †`‡L ivRvi †iv‡li wkKvi n‡q Avevi Zvi †c‡U Pvjvb n‡q hvB, `iKvi bvB| Gfv‡e K‡qK gvm †K‡U †Mj| evN ivRv †Zv nZevK, GwK Ae¯’v, Avgvi Avkcv‡kB †Zv †KD Av‡m bv!
Qq gvm ci GK Bu`yi Gj|
evN ûsKvi w`‡q DVj, ÔGB _vg|Õ
Bu`yi e‡j, ÔwR¡ ûRyi|Õ
: ZzB ï‡bwQm †h Avwg we‡q Kie e‡j gbw¯’i K‡iwQ?
:wR¡ ûRyi, ï‡bwQ|
: Zv Avgvi Kv‡Q †KD Av‡m bv †Kb?
: ûRyi, Zviv Avcbv‡K Lye fv‡jvev‡m ZvB|
: fv‡jvev‡m e‡j Kv‡Q Avm‡e bv, GUv †Kgb K_v?
Gici Bu`y‡ii w`‡K ZvwK‡q evN e‡j,
: ZzB we‡q K‡iwQm?
Bu`yi e‡j, ÔwR¡ ûRyi, we‡q K‡iwQ|Õ
evN Avd‡mvm K‡i e‡j, ÔZzB GKUv Bu`yi, ZzB we‡q K‡i Ni-msmvi KiwQm, Avi Avwg evN n‡q we‡q Ki‡Z cvie bv, GUv †Kgb K_v!Õ
Bu`yi e‡j, ÔûRyi Avwg Avm‡j Av‡M evNB wQjvg, we‡qi c‡i Bu`yi n‡q wM‡qwQ!
me‡k‡l GKUv Mí ewj,
weev‡n cÖej Awb”QyK GK †jvK‡K ejv nj :
mvivUv Rxeb GKv GKvB KvUv‡e? †f‡e †`L, Zzwg hLb giYkh¨vq, ZLb †Zvgvi gy‡L cvwb †`qvi g‡Zv †KD _vK‡e bv|
†Kvb cÖwZhyw³ †`Lv‡Z bv †c‡i we‡q Ki‡Z ivwR n‡q †Mj †jvKUv|
A‡bK eQi c‡ii K_v| `xN© msmviRxeb hvc‡bi ci †jvKwU e„× Ae¯’vq ï‡q Av‡Q g„Zz¨i A‡c¶vq| Zv‡K wN‡i Av‡Q Zvi ¯¿x, cyÎ, Kb¨v| ï‡q ï‡q †m fve‡Q :
†Kb †h we‡q K‡iwQjvg! cvwb †L‡Z B”Qv Ki‡Q bv †Zv!

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